Friday, April 13, 2012

Maybe She Did Work A Day
But does she know what it means to hold a job?

Her husband has told us all she drives Cadillacs.

Her husband, by the way, made nearly half a million dollars a year in speaking fees – what he likes to call “not much” money. He also makes millions of dollars, maybe not every year but most, on investments.

She has worked, exerted effort. She raised children and volunteered in her community. However, she has not been compelled to fill out an IRS Form W-4 – that form one fills out when instructing an employer how much withholding tax to take out of her pay.

It may be wrong to say about this woman that she “never worked a day in her life.” But it is perfectly true that as an adult she never had to get a job. If she ever had to work overtime it was because she was tending to people she loved rather than foregoing time with people she loved. She never had to put up with a boss’s borderline abuse because she couldn’t jeopardize her paycheck or her children’s health insurance. If she needed a vacation she could afford a really nice one without worrying that she was using money the children would need for clothes when the next school year started.

She is a woman of privilege. She is not the person her husband should turn to for insights into the concerns of the vast majority of American women. For those multiple tens of millions of women control over their reproductive organs is very important. For them equal pay for equal work would make a huge difference. For them a car repair is a tougher choice than which Cadillac dealer to call and the color of the loaner car.

If her husband wants to lead us he better be getting advice from someone much closer to our reality than she is.


Anonymous said...

Feel free to comment. I sure did.

Storee Wryter said...

What you write is accurate. Women of wealth don't have the same worries as women who are struggling. Still, I hesitate to find fault with either one for her circumstances. The thing I hope all women will strive for is to do the best you can with what you have.

clarbojahn said...

Thanks for your opinion. I hold the same one. I for one am one of the 47% of those who don't pay income tax because of the bad back I got when working overtime as a nurse while my dying husband was in the care of my kids who under the age of ten. Yes, I would have rather been with them than lifting the heavy comatose patient back to bed.